You guys…..this month! Its been the kind of month that seems like it should be over by now but it just isn’t. There are still four days left! The weeks have been so full. Full of highs and lows. Have you guys ever done that at the dinner table? We used to do that with Isaac when he was younger, we would sit at the table and go around and each talk about our high’s and low’s of the day. It was one of my favorite times as a family. Maybe I will pick that up again at dinner. There is something unique about that question that opens up the conversation about your day. All of that to say, we are going to do some high’s and low’s to catch up.
High: We bought a car. A second car to be more specific. When we moved we decided we would go as a single car family and then buy a second one when we got to Georgia. That was almost three years ago. The first year and a half were not too bad. I actually enjoyed it a little bit. Our life as a whole had slowed down so not having a car wasn’t as big of a deal. Also, Charles worked close enough that if I ever wanted to take the car for the day I could. With the job change his office was farther away and taking the car for the day became a deal. Getting a second car became more of a priority. Wish I could tell you I was so fun to car shop with but I am not. I simply get too wrapped up in making the RIGHT choice, instead of just getting what works for us. It’s a thing I have to consistently work through. WE MADE IT THOUGH. We bought a car. I am so HAPPY. I forgot what life was like with the ease to grocery shop whenever, or take Isaac out during school breaks, or just go grab coffee at a shop and write. It’s truly GLORIOUS!
Low: This one is hard to write because it is tender still and will be for a while. This was the month that we said goodbye to Charles mom, Gail. She had been battling cancer for years, beating it once, for it only to come back. When it returned it came with a timeline, one I would like to note, she beat living longer then they expected. With that timeline in mind, we have purposely spent every holiday and as much time as we could in Charlotte with her. Gail was a fierce lover of her family, there was nothing outside of the Lord that she loved more than Jack (her husband) and her children. Well, maybe the beach but only if Jack and her kids were there. And a good adventure, if Jack and her kids were there. She was something else and we will greatly miss her.
There is our high and low like I said it was quite the month. We opted out of another drive to Charlotte for Thanksgiving, deciding instead to stay home and be. Just the three of us and we did. It was about as low key as you can get. I didn’t even cook a turkey but I loaded up on the snacks. Which as a side note I have recently discovered are what I live for, SNACKS. They are the best thing ever, I will pass on Thanksgiving spread every time if I could gorge myself on snacks. So it was just us, snuggled up, eating snacks, binge-watching football, and Fringe. I did do something brave though. Well at least brave for me. I wrote a post and submitted it for an online community to possibly publish. Somewhere in my rational brain, I understand its not that big of a deal, however, the confidence to write and submit something has been such a journey for me. It felt good to step outside of the box I put myself in and just do something that made my palms sweat a little.
This week we are getting back into our groove. Charles is off to the trenches at work, Isaac is gutting out the harsh school life of a 4th grader (I am joking….he loves it) and I am home (or sometimes not because I have a CAR) trying to find my pace with writing again. I hope your November and Thanksgiving found you surrounded by those you are grateful for and who are grateful for you.